Sunday, March 04, 2007
Really, after one whole day and 2 nights worth of thinking, I think I have finally concluded on an answer to that simple long-standing question that I have. This time I was more patient than the last. The first night was definitely emotions over-riding cognition. Then slowly, things subside and thoughts become straighter. Actually, it was answer based on a long stretch of time. Anyway, this answer that I finally ended up with isn't exactly the one that my beliefs would have preferred. It's more of a compromise of between emotions and beliefs. And I believe 990 out of 1000 guys would have done this same thing. And no, I'm not one of those remaining 10 guys. In fact, I'd think that out of those 10 guys, 9 of them must be indifferent (as in, don't really care) to their partners(which really is not my style), and the last one is the true philantropic (whom I believe have absorbed much suffering internally which the whole world doesn't know about). How about the girls then? I think at least 9 out of 10 girls would feel the same way as I do. In fact, come to think of it, among all the female friends I know, I think almost all would agree with me.

I'm absolutely and totally convinced that this problem will become the breaking point eventually if not ironed out. If it isn't 3 months, it's probably going to be in 3 years or 10, and I'm truly convinced that my opinion on this will not change at least for the next 5 years or even 10, and so I really wouldn't want that to happen. I believe my tolerance is already much higher than many people, and I know I can accept everything else. But somehow for this, I can't. But hey, I'm not a saint man and even a saint has his own death spot. Since the solution isn't something on my side, I've concluded that all I can do is wait... and wait... and wait... till the flame dies out or till the passive side gives an assurance. I'm absolutely certain that I'm not going on till a resolution is made. I'd rather trigger that mine now, rather than live in fear with it, or in other words, I'm prepared to give up the whole oil field if nothing is done to this mine in the field.

Anyway, on a side note, i quite like waking up early in the morning at 5.30am. It gives me a nice reminiece of the past, when I wake up early in the morning at 6am and go to school (at 7 :P) or when I travel to nice cool countries with my family. It's a feeling of happiness and joy, especially when breathing in the nice cool air that seeps in through the shut window. =)

~ Quoted from Nic's blog, beneath all the laughter hides the sorrow. I'll never let myself be hurt again... ever.
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Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.
There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!
Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy.
Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.