Friday, December 17, 2004
I dunno why am i doing this but this post is dedicated to passerby who managed to waste half an hour of my precious time. I dun wanna flood the tag board too much cuz it's going to waste some comments on the tag, so bo bian gotta blog... anyway here is it:
Also, please kindly bear in mind that this situation you have here is not the same as all those you have enjoyed over at nic's blog. Over there, you are dealing literally low-intellectual bastards who does things without facts to back them up. It's a clear right and wrong situation over there, such that even one who comes in at the very last moment also knows who's the bad guy and who's the good guy.Besides over here you are dealing with someone far more interllectual than those you've seen over there. If you think that you can just make noise here just for the sake of doing so like what you did over there, you are wrong. The situation is far more complicated and obscured than what's over there. And life is always not a distinct black and white line. and there are some things you can never judge whether it's right or wrong. Only time can reveal what's right or wrong. Sometimes, even then, you may not even know whether it's right or wrong. If even the people involved, those who knows what's happening can't find a definite answer to the question, do you think as an outsider, someone who doesn't know me personally or her that well, someone who doesn't know the situation, can make a correct, objective and unbias argument? If you can't, then you are just tarnishing your own reputation here and making a fool out of yourself in this event where interllectuals are involved, not clear bad guys with a note" i'm a bad guy" on his forhead. Humans, relationships are just far more complicated and profound that you actually think. A length of a relationship may not be a quality one, and if it's not a quality one, den you'd live to regret and you'd be loving in vain. And once you have made the decision to go ahead with this one that you love, it'll be disastrous to turn back. Hence once decided, it's the go-all-out-for-it mentality. But before you make this decision, you have to stop to judge the success rate of this love story because if you fail once after you have decided, there's very little chance of making a comeback. Because by that time, you'd already be in your mid 30- 40s... would you still want to look for a romance at that time? If you decide clearly now what you really want, would you meet such prob later on in life? If you are attached now, I suggest you to be thinking abt such things too. You may have an ideal partner you are happy with, and congrats. But if you don't and you are clinging onto it, i'll not be surprised that you'd feel unhappy subconsciously... Have you considered all that? Or have you considered only this very moment? As an intellectual, please approach this event in a more mature way, not those little young teenage ger's approach... Time to grow up...
posted by Juxling at 5:38 AM

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Inspiration Quotes
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.
There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!
Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy.
Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.